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Nuke Boat Vet's avatar

Hey Brother Phil! Bullseye Amigo. It's about loving your wife like Jesus loved all those who came his way. I'm pushing 42 years of marriage (with my first, and last wife). Did we have hard times? For sure. Did we struggle? For sure. Did we stray from God's Word. For sure. My adult married kids ask me what's the secret sauce to marriage too. I share your wisdom 100% and explain that their mother has always been my most trusted friend. We were friends, then lovers, and remain that way today. Now, as for MY mother, she's resented my wife for 45 years (including the dating years). She tried to wedge her relationship against my wife's. It was sheer hell for decades - until we moved 2 thousand miles away for work. Today Mom's 93. I still try to console her despite her bitterness. She claims I left her. DShe claims I abandoned her. I remind her that God intended for a man to leave his mother and be ONE with his wife per your Scripture reference. Once I got beyond the guilt she placed on my for years, understood what the Book says about marriage - I've been smiling all the way. God Bless!

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Steve Hoffman's avatar

So true! Phil nails it 100% as usual!

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